Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Fights

So, truth is after several weeks of overloaded happiness in Love life we are headed to disaster this week. Fights after fights commenced. He said its my fault, and I said it's his. Well, don't all fights goes that way?

Its true. We are as different as Venus and Mars. Its hard to find similarities between us. That what brought us together and even apart.

We are too different apart.

We addressed that fact since we decided we love each other. Okay, that sounds cheesy. Haha. or weird? whatever.

the point is, it really doesn't matter whether u share the same passion or not. Most people thought that its better to have the exact same passion to actually make the relationship works.

its really is about our own attitudes. try to not just 'take', but remember to 'gift'.

For girls (as i am one), learn how to fit in their life by understanding, learning and actually taking an interest in what they're doing. Then, this could actually be the tool for u to prompt him to take notice on what u want. :)

I have no idea, as i see other couples are perfectly in love. But I know, some men are hard to get through. They just don't know how. And i repeat, SOME men only. while the others, easily gets a girls smitten by their way. and they easily noticed and understands what a girl actually likes.

I have no idea what i am babbling about. Its just that, sometimes in relationship we fights over the silliest thing when its easier to talk calmly about it. Passion is not the factor to survive Love, its actually maturity, attitude and of course Mr. LOVE itself. :)

XOXO

p/s: we make peace. He assured me, we could never be better. *lovesmuch*

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